In our traditional marriage ceremony, we undertake a profound vow, standing before Agni Dev, the sacred fire, and surrounded by our cherished ones. This commitment goes beyond just this lifetime; it extends to seven lifetimes, symbolizing a deep connection and enduring bond. This spiritual and cultural significance is what makes our union unique and sacred.

The reason we did not celebrate anniversaries historically stems from the belief that once this commitment is made, there is no need to look back. It signifies a continuous journey, reaffirming our commitment to each other through life's ups and downs. The focus is on the enduring strength of the bond rather than marking/counting the passage of years.

On the contrary, Western cultures often have more lenient divorce norms, leading to smaller family structures and an increase in single living. This has contributed to a different perspective on marriage, where the emphasis is on celebrating each passing year. The uncertainty of how long a marriage will last in such a cultural context prompts the celebration of anniversaries as milestones of endurance.

In essence, our choice to forgo anniversary celebrations reflects a commitment deeply rooted in our cultural and spiritual beliefs, contrasting with the more frequent anniversary celebrations in Western cultures influenced by different societal norms around marriage.

Best wishes to all married couples to live happily ever after.